Girls always give looks and then you're meant to interpret them. >_<
You know it's funny. The only time a girl/woman ever shuts up is when they actually could say something meaningful. Instead, they choose that time to play a fucking guessing game, and then act surprised when we have no clue what the hell your problem is. No wonder you are all depressed all the time.
Guys aren't exactly easy either. I prefer to be blunt but it is society playing role types against us here. Women's brains are different than males' and we think differently. Problem is we also interact differently due to how society raised us. Males are supposed to be tough and not express any emotions. Girls are supposedly over emotional. However, girls tend not to say what they mean or they learn to use it to manipulate people into getting what they want. This is typical girl back stab as they say. Say one thing but mean another.
Truth is: humans are fucking complicated. Communication is fucking complicated. You can communicate something by NOT communicating. Sometimes you can overcommunicate, sometimes you don't communicate enough. Throw in the fact we all grow up with different background, subcultures and we all are unique beings with different perspectives on the world and how we interpret it. Of course we're all arrogant so we assume everyone else sees the world as we do until we realize that isn't true. So we're not even always speaking the same communication language. >_> Then throw in the fact that when MALES think they're sending a signal that is "obvious" they aren't always. Same for females though.
So at the end of the day: if you want to tell someone something, SAY IT. And males have an issue with not always realizing what emotions drive their actions, though females can have this issue too, it is normally for males because society teaches males to be hardasses and not to give a damn about anything. That to do so is to be "weak".
Yet females are emotional types so emotions are more the way they're used to communicating. So to sum it up: people are fucking complicated. If you think a person is worth their crap, then make sure you actually put time and effort into it and try to keep communicating. Because if there is a miscommunication, it is always both people's faults. Takes two people to mess up.
And most of all, guys are just as stupid as girls are. We're just all stupid in different ways when it comes to communication.
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