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Cactuar Zone => Random lnsanity => Topic started by: Nitemarebforcrismas on September 02, 2008, 09:51:28 pm

Title: What do you do?
Post by: Nitemarebforcrismas on September 02, 2008, 09:51:28 pm

If it seems like you catch the girl you're in love with in lie after lie after lie. Literally, it's almost everything you can see a lie in her words. What do you do about that? You don't want to break up with her because you truly do love her. But you've already been through enough that the slightest thing can send you over the edge. And it seems like every time she lies it sends you over that edge...every time...

Title: What do you do?
Post by: Fake from State Jarm on September 03, 2008, 01:40:45 am

... go on dr. phil with her (but i would just break up with her)

Title: What do you do?
Post by: nIveK oGre on September 03, 2008, 01:44:25 am

what you do is find your nutsack and dump the lying bitch!

unless you're just being paranoid and she's not really lying and then you find your nutsack and dump the bitch and get your shit straightened out because you're acting like a puss.

Title: What do you do?
Post by: Ganon5 on September 03, 2008, 04:13:24 am

Dramatic much?

But really, what sort of stuff is she lying about (trying to hide something or trying to impress you?) and have you talked about it? Because I don't see how anyone's supposed to stay in a relationship with someone that drives them crazy

Title: What do you do?
Post by: Dontasemebro on September 03, 2008, 05:47:35 am

had a similar problem, stayed with her for lie after lie.

You won't feel right unless you stay until you no longer want to be with her. If you leave her before you feel she really deserved it, you'll end up wanting her back.

Title: What do you do?
Post by: Electric Mango on September 03, 2008, 08:20:11 am

You have to tell your girlfriend how you feel.  Yes I know, I said the "f" word, feel.  Anyways, tell her how you feel and explain to her that her behavior has to change or you will not be able to stay in the relationship.  If that doesn't help things I suggest breaking it off.  You deserve to be in love with someone who loves you just as much.  If she is lying as much as you say then she obviously doesn't feel the same and you have to do the hard thing and end it.  If you don't you'll be in this same little circle over and over again.  

Title: What do you do?
Post by: IronSoldier820 on September 03, 2008, 09:02:26 am

Quote from: Dontasemebro

had a similar problem, stayed with her for lie after lie.

You won't feel right unless you stay until you no longer want to be with her. If you leave her before you feel she really deserved it, you'll end up wanting her back.

That actually doesn't sound like that bad of an idea. Not a mindset with the hopes for a best outcome or anything, but it's not like it's the best situation either.

Title: What do you do?
Post by: Fake from State Jarm on September 03, 2008, 09:24:38 am

Quote from: Dontasemebro

had a similar problem, stayed with her for lie after lie.

You won't feel right unless you stay until you no longer want to be with her. If you leave her before you feel she really deserved it, you'll end up wanting her back.

on the other hand your feelings of what she deserves might be out of whack and maybe you're only staying with her because you're afraid you can't get better (which is not really love, that part)

if a really classy girl comes along you'll be wondering why you put up with what you put up with