I like someone. There, I said it.

[wethepeople]

=/ I have a crush on a girl I've known but I don't know what to do. She's 16, turning 17. I'm 15, turning 16. Thats akward. I am Christian, and people in Christ. She's how I used to be, that should be enough info. She likes Religious music and if not that then soft, soft rock and occasional R&B (Go figure.) I like Metallica, Disturbed, Pantera, Slipknot (Thanks Loren.), and basically metal. Ozzy, Dio, etc. I do not flaunt my religion in listening tastes. She has a VERY strict family who keeps them from R movies etc etc. I do not.

But I like her. I like people based on who they are on the inside, I can read people like a book most of the time. And I /really/ like who this person is on the inside of the religious coating. Except I don't have the guts to do anything. =/ I don't even know if I should. There's a LOT of bad that could happen if I did anything, but there's also a bit of good I guess. I don't know what to do. Well... I do. But I don't know if I want to. I'm shy, very shy. Well I never used to be, but times changed me. I am reserved and pretty shy, masking my emotions with humor. You may or may not catch that. I'm afraid they think I'm a idiot cause how I act (Very sarcastic, jokes, etc.) And I don't know if its even worth it.

Unlike Damen, I have no pictures.

/vent over

[Grand Poobah Marx]

Don't know what to tell you man, except I feel for you.. =/

[wethepeople]

Thanks Poobah. =/

[invincible13matt]

1. C-Zom, I technically have a girlfriend (ugh, I hate that term) who is 15 and I am 17. So don't feel too bad about that.

2. Music shouldn't make a difference.

3. Trust me, nothing good can come out of being shy. That's no way to get anywhere with anyone. What do you want to do, end up a miser like me? Please don't, it's not fun. Go on ahead, go cautiously, check on her feelings towards you in discreet methods, and over all, try, try, try. Show your character, and don't be ashamed of it, this is who you are, and you have to live with it the rest of your life. You may as well at least pretend to like it. If she likes it, yay, good for you, if she spurns it, put it behind you, and move on.

Also, is it necessary to change your avatar that much?

[Commisar Gaunt]

Nothing to it, but to do it. Also, cocks.

[wethepeople]

1. C-Zom, I technically have a girlfriend (ugh, I hate that term) who is 15 and I am 17. So don't feel too bad about that.

2. Music shouldn't make a difference.

3. Trust me, nothing good can come out of being shy. That's no way to get anywhere with anyone. What do you want to do, end up a miser like me? Please don't, it's not fun. Go on ahead, go cautiously, check on her feelings towards you in discreet methods, and over all, try, try, try. Show your character, and don't be ashamed of it, this is who you are, and you have to live with it the rest of your life. You may as well at least pretend to like it. If she likes it, yay, good for you, if she spurns it, put it behind you, and move on.

1: Except her parents rules are mondo weird. Their 17 year old daughter going out with a younger dude? I highly don't they would like it, even if we're only a year and a couple months apart.

2: It does when there isn't anything to talk about.

3: True. Last time I was myself though it didn't work out too well. But, I will give it one more go.. I guess.

[Vector]

dude, just go for it, i've dated people way older than me (she was 17 i was 13/14 [we dated during and around my b-day] and it went fine for 3 months) and im an ugly bastard so, no matter who you are youve always got a chance if you think you can.

And worst that can happen is you get a no (wow, i should really take my own advice *is trying to grow enough balls to ask out one of the prettiest girls i know* I think she likes me also but still, auqh!)

[master31347]

huggles c-zom

[Nitemarebforcrismas]

Go for it. If you don't, then you're going to be just sitting there wondering whether or not she would say yes or not...You might as well do it. If she turns you down, then well, that happens. And about the parents...forget about them. If she really likes you, she'll stay with you whether her parents don't want her to or not.

[Commisar Gaunt]

huggles master

[wethepeople]

<_< Just going for it puts a lot more on line then a no. But thanks Vec.

-Hugs Nathan-

...-Counts money he got from his back pocket-

[master31347]

im fking por lol.

[Commisar Gaunt]

*spoons with nathan*

[master31347]

 

[—-]

Vector's right, the worst that could happen is a no. And trust me, I'm the most shy person IRL unless I know you or I'm bored. It's not so bad, just relax and play it down. You're lucky, you probably don't have 2 friends trying to set you up with people.

[wethepeople]

Thats not the worst that could happen, trust me on that one. I could go, ask her do to something, but again thats pretty crazy. =/ I don't have the guts. And I'm not so much shy as I am reserved. Since I've known her for a long time a sudden burst of "Lets do something" would seem incredibally weird and out of character.

[—-]

Ask to go to the movies as friends? Or.. I don't know. I used to go over my friend John's house to play on his wii and play Madness Combat lol.

And, what could be the worst?

[wethepeople]

Lawl. Except our two families don't like each other that much, a ton of crap happened that keeps my parents away from them all, except for me. I just go to the youthgroup. So dating her would be major weird for my family and theirs.

I'm sorta friends with her brother. He would be pissed. Etc.

I could ask her to go to a movie but... her family is weird about movies. The whole "I don't buy tickets for this movie cause it also supports the R rated movies in the theatre." is what they do.

BTW, this is not HER. Its her parents. She's normal, nice, and there's just something about her. She's no where near as conservative as her family is. But thats just the thing, her family is.

[Delta1212]

I've been in... similar situations. Ones where it does seem you have a lot more to lose than a simple "no." I've found that, even if you do get rejected, you actually feel a hell of a lot better than if you don't ask at all. I've experienced all three situations before (Acceptance, rejection, not doing anything in the first place). The result you get from doing nothing is always the worst. "What if"s are a fucking bitch.

[wethepeople]

True, Delta. What ifs suck balls, and thats a fact.