Why can't I tell her how I feel?

[Damen]

I'll tell you why.


It's because...


-She's athletic
-Beautiful
-Funny
-Smart
-Perfect


I, on the other hand...

-Ugly
-Overweight
-Shy
-Smart
-Funny


Not a chance in the world.


This is a topic for me to express my feelings about this girl.

[master31347]

look Damen, im fat too, but just be yourself, maybe try to be funny, really funny, or move to monroe michigan, hot girls like fat funny guys here, just talk to her a lot, let her get to know you, then tell her how you feel. DONT GET TOO CLOSE OR SHE WILL ONLY LOVE YOU LIKE A FRIEND. ive learned this.

[Damen]

I hate viewing her as "hot". It seems like such a derogatory term for her beauty.

[master31347]

I know, I'm just saying. I am used to it, because guys here are Assholes, but sure....Beautiful, Stunning, Gorgeous, Mezmerizing, would be appropriate for your case, man.

[Damen]

Probably.





The one that thing that infuriates me more than anything is how assholes talk about "boning" her.

I conceal my rage only because I don't want her to know how I feel about her until I'm ready.

[master31347]

just stand up for her, show her you care, she might like that, and dont even let the other guys bother you, how old are you btw?

[Damen]

14

[—-]

If I said I didn't know how you feel I'd be lying.

[master31347]

im 14 too, and well, ive had like 16 girlfriends, and i really dont do anything, i guess im really funny.

[Damen]

Thanks for the advice, guys

[wethepeople]

I'm going through the same thing Damen.

Here is what I've learned: Just be yourself. Thats it. Through wounds and weariness you must realize one thing and thats to be yourself. All the feelings you have, all the worry, etc. Don't let that build up. Every time you see her just talk to her, say hi, get something going. Let her know you're interested in her. Get her AIM, something.

God knows I should follow my own advice, but still. But don't let the feelings for her build up. @_@ Those, my friend, can drive a guy haywire.

[Damen]

I am closing this topic.


I can't even make a serious topic without being called a fat motherfucker.




It is sad when the day comes that my own fellows won't respect me.

There are tears in my eyes right now.


You fuckers don't know how bad I've been ridiculed and hated because of my weight problem. I thought that you guys would be different


I was wrong.

[Flask]

I guess I'll repost the gist of what I said without giving so much as a hint of anything but my full sympathy for your situation.

If you believe that your appearance is not "up to par" use the stuff inside you that is up to par instead. If you're smart and funny, then be smart and funny. It's hard not to think about looks, and it's especially hard for people who are blinded by what they can see with their eyes. So level out your B- and flaunt your A+. It's not easy to do, but once you get the hang of weilding your great attributes, you'll find you can get the attention you want.